Let me just preface this post by saying that this is NOT a judgement on those parents that have successfully implemented the
Babywise program, but rather to share what goes through my head each time I attempt to let
Jax cry it out.
Jax is 5 months old now! He is still nursing (we are going to start rice milk when Tim gets home tomorrow :)). He smiles, laughs, rolls over, and is almost sitting up alone. He sleeps in his crib. On occasion, he will got down for a nap on his own. But for the most part, I put him to sleep by rocking him.
Yes, this is time consuming. Yes, this can be frustrating. But I can't bring myself to let him cry for longer than 30 minutes.
Don't we all just want a little cuddling every once in a while? Isn't this the only time in his life where someone will rock him to sleep? Is it bad for him to know that someone is always there for him?
I know I
can't smother him, and part of being a parent is helping them become
independent. Can it wait until they are old enough to understand and they know their basic needs are met? Aren't there other ways to teach your children the world isn't centered on them?
I just think it is really sad when kids stop crying because
they know that no one is coming. However, will I become a rocking robot and how long will this
commitment last???
Oh, the dilemmas of parenthood!
Can't wait for Tim to get back tomorrow!